I recently found out about Charles' passing. Charles worked for me at the Edward S. Gordon Co in NY. in the late 80's prior to relocating to Va. He was a great employee but more than that a great person. Who can ever forget his laugh! Also though I won't forget his caring. Charles drove from Va to Ct when my mother died in 1993. I have let several people that we worked closely with know of Charles' death. We intend to get together this Fall and have dinner in his honor. He is truly remembered by all of us with love, respect and great affection.

Message from Marie Marshall

July 21, 2017 1:08 PM

Dear Dawn, I remember your name as a person Charles spoke about often, and his fun times at Edward S. Gordon & Com. We miss Charles very much as he would always pop over to visit us as we have relocated to Va. in the late 90's. We're so glad that we were able to see Charles so often and he got to meet our new granddaughter when she was just a day old,( Picture) which I know meant alot to him, Her mother was his goddaughter Elizabeth. Please continue to remember him in your prayers, his birthday is a week from Sunday, July 31st, he would have been only 56. Marie

Message from Ken

April 15, 2017 8:18 AM

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathy. The Bible’s promise at Rev. 21: 4 proved to be a great comfort to me when my daughter died. "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.” Isaiah 26:19 "Your dead will live......And the earth will let those powerless in death come to life." My deepest condolences.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 17, 2017 10:15 AM

Thank you.
These do help.

Message from Belinda Walsh

April 14, 2017 9:23 AM

I cannot believe he is gone, Charles was such a wonderful man. To his husband and family I am so sorry but I know he treasured and loved you all. I was blessed to volunteer with Charles on different occasions with the medical reserve corp. Neither of us were native Eastern Shore people but we bonded so quickly. He made me feel like we were fast friends the first day we met. He was a passionate, kind, caring and knowledgeable great nurse. It was a pleasure sharing nursing experience and skills with him. Just the other week I was thinking of Charles and his Italian "gravy" it was the best I've ever had; and I was hoping one day he would share it with (so I could impress people with the best gravy ever!) me. The loss I feel is nothing compared to those who have shared their lives and even more memories with him, but I wanted you to know just how special he was and how loving and kind and generous. A treasure is gone from this earth but not from our hearts. Thank you Charles and thank you Frank for sharing your jewel.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 14, 2017 4:43 PM

Your kind words are appreciated.
Charles loved what he did more than anyone I have known. Volunteering was as much fun for him as work because of the people he was with. Thank you for being his friend.

Message from Randy Miller III

April 14, 2017 8:41 AM

To Frankie and family of Charles, So sorry for your loss . He helped me out a lot through the years with care and support when something was wrong . He always made me feel like he loved helping people. He will be missed and was glad to have known him. Stay Strong .

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 14, 2017 9:19 AM

Helping someone was his life. Now he can get some rest.
Thank you for you kind thoughts.

A candle was lit by Tonya Dize on April 13, 2017 1:56 PM

Hearing that Charles passed away has broken my heart. He was the reason that I was given the nursing position at Metompkin Medical Center in 1995. He taught me everything that I needed to know about office nursing. He was great nurse, always so thoughtful and caring to others. I spent over 21 years at that office and will forever be grateful for the kindness, faithfulness and trust that he instilled in me during the years that we worked together. Everyone that worked with him in the medical field are blessed to have done so. So many memories, so many laughs, we really had so much fun that work never felt much like work. I had several dinners at his home with him and his sweet mother enjoying great company, food and atmosphere. The roses in his yard were always beautiful. He made the BEST spaghetti sauce ever!!!!!! I will never forget you and will treasure the memories we shared. You spent your life taking care of others, now the Lord will take care of you. Rest in peace my dear friend. Sending my thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 13, 2017 3:58 PM

Thank you Tonya.
One day while he was at work I had an inner ear problem. I couldn't even tell which way was up... Charles arranged for a friend to drive me to the Medical Center. I told him I didn't want to go but he said "Tonya is there, you'll be fine". He trusted you.
He loved to cook for loved ones and friends second only to Nursing. He was getting a container of 'sauce' from the freezer when he passed. That was Charles.

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A candle was lit by Ann Lewis on April 12, 2017 10:30 PM

I am sooo sorry to hear of Charles's passing. I went to LPN school with him. He was such a nice man. He was very thoughtful and caring... I know everyone is going to miss him....

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 13, 2017 7:08 AM

Thank you so much. LPN school was Charles' "good old days". He loved it.

A candle was lit by GLENN & KAREN CRIM on April 12, 2017 8:09 PM

Message from Terry Bundick

April 12, 2017 7:38 PM

This just breaks my heart. Charlie was such a special person. He will be certainly be missed! RIP!!

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 13, 2017 7:12 AM

Very special...
Your kind thoughts are appreciated.

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Message from Shawna Kilmon

April 12, 2017 2:59 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Charles was good man. I first meet him when he was bringing his mom in to Visual Changes, he was always smiling. He was a nice man and I will truly miss him. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 13, 2017 7:22 AM

He did his best to take care of his Mom. Never complained.
Thank you for you prayers.

Message from Harry Spady

April 12, 2017 2:08 PM

To the family I am so sorry for your loss. Charles was one of the most kindest and compassionate people I ever had the pleasure of knowing and working with. Love & Light. X

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 13, 2017 7:27 AM

Charles was always everyone else first. Often at his own loss. That was him.
Thank you for such a kind post.

Message from Bobbie Bundick

April 12, 2017 10:28 AM

To the family, I am sorry to hear of the passing of Charles. Worked with him at the hospital in 1990's . He had a jovial personality and I am happy that our paths crossed. In the days ahead and the quiet moments I pray God will grant peace for He is our refuge and strength a very present help in trouble.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 12, 2017 11:11 AM

Thank you. Charles loved working at the hospital back then. He often brought up the good times he had (even when understaffed and rushed) and the great people he worked with. You all ment more to him than you know. He really loved careing for others and did at the expense of himself. That was Charles.
I sincerely appreciate your thoughts. I am trying to get through this, getting past having him here is not easy for me. I know that He will look over me but I still....

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 12, 2017 1:17 AM

Message from Ginger

April 11, 2017 8:21 PM

My sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Charles. The loss of our dear loved ones can be very difficult and distressing to cope with. True comfort comes in knowing that Jehovah ( Psalm 83 : 18 - God's name ) is not the cause of our pain, suffering and death, Hebrews 2 : 14 tells us the source. May you be comforted in knowing that Jehovah hates death ( 1 Corinthian 15 : 26 ) and promises to eliminate death forever and bring ones sleeping in death back to life on a cleansed earth. ( John 17 : 3; Isaiah 25 : 7,8; Revelation 21 : 3-5; Acts 24 : 15; Psalms 37 : 10,11, 29 ). Also, may your own good and loving memories of Charles help to soothe your hearts, as we remember that our dear loved ones now safely rest in the loving memory of our Grand Creator, Jehovah God, waiting for the fulfillment of His promised purpose for us all. Sincerely

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 10:56 PM

Thank you so very much for your comforting thoughts. He is greatly missed and will always be in my memory.

A candle was lit by Carla Hinmon on April 11, 2017 7:09 PM

Message from Temperanceville, Virginia

April 11, 2017 7:08 PM

"They are not dead who live in lives they leave behind. In those whom they have blessed, they live a life again, and shall live through the years eternal life, and shall grow each day more beautiful, as time declares their good, forgets the rest, and proves their immortality."

Although words seem futile now in the midst of your sorrow, they are all I have to give you. Please accept these written words as warm hugs to wrap yourself in, and know that I am holding you in my heart at this sad and difficult time.

Gods Blessings To All

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 10:58 PM

Thank you Carla. Just talking to you today helped.
I'm sure Charles appreciates it and will send you your own special Ray of Sun to warm you on a cool day.

A candle was lit by Betty borden on April 11, 2017 4:19 PM

Message from Accomac

April 11, 2017 2:43 PM

I'm sorry to hear about Charles. I enjoyed working with him in the doctor's offices and will miss seeing and volunteering with him at the local events.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 11:06 PM

Thank you. No matter how tired (or hot) he was at the end of a day, he always was happy he had helped. He loved every second he was helping with an event and the time with his friends there was always the best part!

A candle was lit by Eastern Shore Railway Museum on April 11, 2017 1:30 PM

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Message from Max & Diann Bendix

April 11, 2017 1:26 PM

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Charles will be missed. He helped a lot of people in need.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 11:12 PM

Thank you. Charles seemed to feel best when he was helping someone. It was his life. I know he is missed by me, it does help to hear it from so many.

A candle was lit by Mary Ewell on April 11, 2017 1:09 PM

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Message from Dottie Smith

April 11, 2017 10:46 AM

Cecil & Marie,
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

April 12, 2017 8:12 AM

Hi Dottie, Thank you so much for your kind thoughts. Marie & Cecil

A candle was lit by Dottie Smith on April 11, 2017 10:43 AM

Message from Ellen Johnson

April 11, 2017 10:32 AM

My family and I are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 11:18 PM

Thank you. The loss of Charles has been devastating to me. Your prayers are sincerely appreciated.

A candle was lit by Ellen johnson on April 11, 2017 10:30 AM

Message from Matt Powell

April 11, 2017 10:19 AM

Dear Ones,
Charles was a dedicated friend, always there, always helpful, steadfast.
We meet over a dish sink at the PVFD during an ESRM spaghetti dinner, I guess sharing dirty dishes somehow makes you great friends, as Charles surely was to me.
We talked almost everyday, sharing our thoughts on many things.
His dedication to nursing was amazing to me, helping many people. No matter what the time, or the weather, if you called he came.
He will surely be missed,
May God grant him everlasting peace and comfort.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 11, 2017 11:22 PM

Matt... What can I possibly say that would be enough to thank you for being such a great friend to Charles? Sometimes I think you already have your Halo and Wings... No bells needed.

Message from Donna Faye Phillips

April 11, 2017 10:18 AM

I am so sorry to hear of Charles passing. What a kind and giving man. My grandmother Gladding has had a special friend to watch out after her for so many years. He will be greatly missed . Rest in peace my friend.

A candle was lit by Frankie on April 12, 2017 12:29 AM

Charles thought the world of "Ms Viola". She is such a kind lady.
He loved her sweet potato pies and her cakes were better than any other!
Once, when a severe storm was expected, he had me make up the guest room "Just for Ms Viola". Everything had to be Exactly Right in case she wanted to stay over during the storm!
We were happy to be invited to her 100th birthday party! We were honored when she came over and sat with us. Charles really enjoyed her showing us all of the pictures and telling us about each. It made his day!
Thank you for your posting. Charles was so happy with how you care for Ms Viola. And Charles knew the real meaning of caregiver.
Please let Ms Viola know about this post... Charles would want her to know.

A candle was lit by Donna Faye Phillips on April 11, 2017 10:14 AM

A candle was lit by Ann, Matthew and Caitlin Powell on April 11, 2017 10:08 AM